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An honest look at what is really happening

Your relationship: keep trying or let go?

Answer based on what is really happening, not what you wish would happen. This will help you see whether the relationship still has a real path forward or whether you're staying because leaving feels too hard.

50 questions About 8–12 minutes Answer on your own
There are no perfect answers here. Pick the one that feels closest to your real life.

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This is a tool for reflection, not a professional diagnosis.

A couple thinking at a crossroads in their relationship
Answer from real life

Look at the usual pattern, not only the best or worst day.

See what keeps you there

Separate love from guilt, dependence, fear, and habit.

Get a clear next step

See whether to keep going, make real changes, step back, or end it.

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